Self-care is no longer optional. It’s paramount to how we move through this world, how we care for the planet, and how we support ourselves and the people we love. There’s no one definition for self-care, though, which can make it more difficult to know where to start or what will work best. Self-care is not self-indulgence.
It’s not a one-size-fits-all prescription, either, but there are some general ground rules: Bingeing on anything — alcohol, food, drugs, Netflix — as a way to manage stress, for example, is not self-care, even if it feels good at the moment. But a little decompression time with any of these (drugs maybe not), can be part of a self-care routine, as long as it’s not the entirety of it.
Self-care isn’t always going to feel amazing as it’s happening, too, and that can make it feel less exciting, like choosing a green juice instead of a Grigio, for example. But the point is you’re developing or sustaining habits that are fundamentally good for you, can lead to increased longevity, mental and physical wellbeing, and even financial and professional success.
Why?
In short, we’re not designed to live full-time in the nonstop world we’ve created. There’s a reason why almost everyone experiences a measure of anxiety, depression, or fear at some point — even often when trying to tackle seemingly simple things. Sometimes you do need a lazy day where all you do is relax. But you also need to find balanced. Active, healthy self-care means mixing things up a bit.
As well as spa days, movie days, and duvet days, diversify your time and keep your body and mind healthy. For example, working out is a form of self-care. You might not enjoy going to the gym, but your body needs to keep moving and your mind will appreciate what you do for it. Find ways to exercise that you enjoy. Whether it’s half an hour each day of walking or working out at home, or a sport that you play with friends, the trick is to find something. You don’t need to let it take over your life or become amazing at it, just give yourself regular exercise.
Research has shown that simply going outside and being in nature can help ease anxiety, make your mind work more efficiently, and, if you go for long walks or runs, you can combine the two. Nature is therapeutic in so many ways, so take advantage of it.
Prioritizing self-care
The first thing you need to do is give yourself time. While some people feel guilty when they take breaks and relax for a day or a weekend, that downtime is beneficial to you and those around you. Otherwise, you risk burning out, which can mean that you’re physically, mentally, and emotionally unable to help others or even function in your normal life for a while. Either you take a break when you choose, or your body will force you to take a break.
“Self-care is important because it helps re-establish balance and avoid burnout,” clinical psychologist Sabrina Romanoff, PsyD, told Verywell. “It is often the mechanism of recalibrating and getting in touch with our ability to play, have fun, relax, and connect.”
Whether you’ve been through a recent trauma or you’re just struggling to cope, there is no shame in looking for help. Therapy can give you the tools to work through your problems, while medication might give you the ability to manage in the meantime. So, self-care isn’t always easy or passive. But it’s the best way to look after your well-being and be your best, healthiest self.
Self-care tips for a healthy body and mind
Whether going for a walk on your local beach or curling up with a good book, there’s no one way to self-care. But what’s most critical is to stick with things that make you feel good. You’ll be a happier and healthier person for it.
Manage stress with adaptogens
If it seems like you’re seeing products boasting adaptogenic properties everywhere you look, you are. They’re so hot right now and for good reason. That reason? Stress sucks. It’s important to remember that stress isn’t just the icky stuff like a boss stressing you out or rush hour traffic. It can be more subtle—the stress of not sleeping well, a poor diet, physical stress from sitting all day, and so on.
It’s why so many people love adaptogens like ashwagandha and reishi mushrooms. Botanical drinks like Kin Euphorics are loaded with good-for-you botanicals including Saffron, Reishi Mushroom, and Passionflower along with L-Theanine, L-Serine, L-Tryptophan, Magnesium Glycinate that take the edge off almost immediately. And it tastes amazing, too.
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Read a book
We are so glued to our phones that we all too often forego reading books for doomscrolling. And that’s a shame. Reading a book isn’t just an introvert activity; it is better for the eyes than the blue light of smartphones, so you can count that as self-care, too. The bigger benefit is the story — fiction or not — takes us into another world. These don’t need to be books about self-care at all, by the way. Try a novel, a memoir, or a book of poems to find inspiration for taking some ‘me time.’
Cook a meal
We’ve all been cooking more in the last two years of the pandemic. But that’s survival cooking. Making a meal because you need to eat is so different than making a meal because it’s beautiful, nourishing, and wholly rewarding in different ways.
We publish a lot of recipes here at Ethos, but you’ll find yourself wowed over the collection from Lauren Lovatt. She’s taken a mental wellness approach to food in her cookbook Mind Food: Plant-Based Recipes for Positive Mental Health. The recipes are stunning, good-for-you creations that are worthy of some quiet kitchen time and a reason to bust out the fancy tableware.
Grow something
There are countless studies pointing to the benefits of nature; forest bathing is popular for good reason. But when most of us live in cities, we can’t always get out to the middle of a forest. And for most of us, the pandemic has quashed vacation plans for the last two years. But when it comes to nature, a little can go a long way, even if it’s just a windowsill herb garden.
Growing something connects us to the planet in important ways. And if you’re growing food? Well, it helps with the self-care goal of eating better too. Even if your history with houseplants isn’t the best, don’t give up hope. This windowsill herb garden can help you grow healthy herbs and reconnect you to the planet we all share.
Forest bathe
If you think forest bathing involves tubs and suds surrounded by trees, you’re in good company — Rebel Wilson and Jane Goodall did a whole promo for it a few years back. But the bigger takeaway is — naked or not — getting into a forest has benefits for our mental health. Credit the increased oxygen produced by trees, moving your body, birdsongs, or any number of wildlife sightings, and it’s easy to see why forest bathing is such a panacea for our modern world. Need a really deep immersion after these last few years? Why not take a nature-immersed vacation?
Move your body
Move more. Movement isn’t just good for your physical health; it’s good for your mental health as well. When you move your body more, you feel better about yourself. It can be hard to move your body when you’ve been sitting for hours at work, especially if you have a sedentary job. When you make time for exercise in your routine, you’re going to find yourself feeling lighter and freer.
“Exercise is a tangible instance where you can observe the payoff of your perseverance towards a goal,” says Romanoff. “You can push past the limitations of your mind and prove to yourself you may be stronger than you previously thought. This is one of the ways exercise helps with confidence and resilience.”
A busy schedule is not something that should get in your way of movement, but if it is, then it’s time to prioritize. Movement is going to help you to be happier and healthier for longer. Try out a new yoga or pilates class. Working from home? Grab an eco yoga mat and take a few minutes for a Yoga Works class to stretch before you start your day.
Hydrate
Are you chronically dehydrated? It’s more possible than you might think. You should be looking at ensuring that you are drinking at least two liters of water per day. Not only will this make you feel good, but it will help you to open up your blood vessels and help your skin to feel clearer and healthier than ever before. It keeps all things working smoothly, and who doesn’t want that? Keep a sustainable water bottle filled and with you at your desk or in your car so you can stay hydrated throughout your day without waste.
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This post was previously published on The Ethos.
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