Her boyfriend has become so clingy and is now making childish demands.
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AITA for not cancelling my plans after my boyfriend learned about his diagnosis?
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woman has received support from Reddit users after sharing that she’d prioritized attending a social event over staying at home with her unwell partner.
The dilemma was shared by @Inevitable-Trip3538 on February 19, and has been upvoted by 95 percent of Reddit users. Most sided with the woman, sympathizing with her over her partner.
The Redditor had revealed that her boyfriend had recently been diagnosed with anemia. The pair had a huge fight after she chose to attend the event, instead of staying in to spend time with him.
“I work in event planning so I always get invites or tickets to go high end events. There was a huge event coming up that I was really excited to go to,” the woman shared in the Reddit post.
“I asked my boyfriend 3 days before the event to accompany me and he said yes. On the day of the event, he said [h]e had a doctor’s appointment so he isn’t sure if he can still attend.
“A couple hours later he texted me and said he has something to tell me. I asked if everything was okay and he said he was diagnosed with anemia so he’ll have to take supplements,” she continued.
The Redditor expressed how sorry she was. She spoke to her boyfriend on the matter for hours, gave him pep talks, and told him that she would be here if he needed her. She also reassured him that she’ll always love him and look after him.
The Reddit post reads: “I then asked if he would still like to attend the event with me to take his mind off of things to which he responded that he doesn’t like the artistes performing so he’d rather go another event. I said No Problem, I will go with my stepsister alone. He got upset and hung up.”
The pair got into an argument later on. The woman’s partner called her selfish, criticized her priorities and labeled her ignorant.
Of the 3,000-plus comments that the post has garnered, most Redditors have expressed that they feel the woman’s boyfriend is being unreasonable in this situation. Users wrote that his health condition is not serious enough to warrant him being this demanding.
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